Enjoying Girls In Cebu – Pinay Beauty At Its Finest!
Cebu has the second busiest airport in the Philippines and represents a popular destination for tourists from all over the world. It is often referred to as the Queen City of the South and it is easy to tell why. You can find pretty much everything you have in Manila, only it is not that overwhelming and stressful. Girls in Cebu are slightly different in looks from those in Manila.
At the same time, you will also find lots of Manila babes hanging around Cebu – after all, it is another major hub for tourists.
But then, what do you need to do to land yourself some stunning babes? No worries, Dean is here to show you how! 😉
How to pick up girls in Cebu
Cebu is one of those places where you have to forget about your inhibitions. It is the kind of place where the game is always on – whether you go out during the day or at night, you will find beautiful girls, make eye contact and get phone numbers.
Especially as a foreigner!
Local dating culture
The local dating culture in Cebu is similar to the entire country.
Simply put, the man is expected to lead – in this case, you!
Girls will give you hints, such as a smile or eye contact, but you are usually supposed to make the first step.
It is alright to approach girls, but be polite. There is a small chance to be rejected, yet most of them will be nice to you. Even if a girl is not single and refuses you, she will do it the right way – no abusive words or ignorance.
Once you get a phone number, you can ask the girl out for a date. Cebu women expect you to pay for the date, so plan it right in advance. It can be a coffee, a walk in a local park or dinner.
You can also extend it and head to a nightclub, but there will not be too much talking there if you know what I mean. 😉
It normally depends on what you expect. The day game is good for one night stands and proper relationships, while the night game is more suitable for those who want a quickie. Obviously, you can meet all kinds of girls at any time of the day.
The Do’s and Don’ts
Keep in mind that most Cebu girls are about family. Everything in the Philippines is about family, so when you date a Filipina, you date her entire family. You will be introduced to them quite early in the stage.
Even if you come from a more developed country, it does not mean that you can be a redneck. Girls in Cebu expect foreigners to be gentlemen. If you fail to do so, you will never get the chance to see her again.
Respect religion as well. Just like family, local girls tend to be religious. Even if you are not too much into it, at least respect her choices and beliefs and avoid making fun of anything with a religious aspect – it will chase her away.
Avoid making fun or unpleasant comments about the local culture. Some things in the Philippines may not always make sense. It is a different culture with a completely new set of rules. Get used to it and embrace it as it is.
How to get laid in Cebu as a foreigner
It normally depends on what you want. You can get laid within five minutes if you hook up with a street girl or a prostitute. You can also get laid in a day or two if you go into traditional dating or even a week or more if you end up dating a conservative Filipina.
You might want to start checking out the best Filipina dating sites to get started today! I compare 4 famous local dating sites and show you all the pros and cons.
Cebu vs Manila – Which one is better?
Both cities have their pros and cons. Manila is the capital of the country. It is much bigger and it features girls from all over the country – not to mention girls from other Asian places.
You can check my blogpost about picking up girls in Manila! It is based on my 2 year stay in the capital.
You obviously have more opportunities in Manila. The nightlife is more intense too.
Cebu is a bit smaller, but still big. It is one of the largest cities in the Philippines and boosts slightly less tourists than Manila, so your exotic factor will be MUCH stronger.
Proportionally, you will find less girls in Cebu, but the quality is higher. Again, it depends on what you are looking for.
You are more likely to run into prostitutes and sluts in Manila than in Cebu. While Cebu has its share amount of hookers, finding a proper relationship is easier.
My verdict? Choose Manila for partying and Cebu for mild partying and more relationship based.
Where to meet girls in Cebu
This is the beauty of the Philippines – you can meet girls in Cebu pretty much anywhere. Another great thing – the game is on round the clock. Pick up girls during the day or after sunset – you can still do it with no problems at all.
The day game is great in Cebu. Go down the street, head to a shopping mall and make eye contact. You look different, so most girls will inevitably look at you. Smile and go introduce yourself.
Eight out of 10 girls will be happy to have a chat with you, even if some of them are not single and they will refuse you.
The day game is great for multiple reasons. You could find a good girl and actually start a relationship. You could also find someone who wants to hook up only – no strings attached.
To lots of men, the day game is stronger than the night game.
From many points of view, picking up girls during the day is great to have something set for the night and also start dating. Sure, you can find casual sex during the day, but days are more suitable for dating – at least a few dates before sex.
While you can find hot Cebu women down the street, head over to shopping malls, bars, parks and restaurants. You want women in a relaxed environment, as they will be more eager to talk to you.
Malls are better for a foreigner because they are air conditioned – no sweat, no hassle, no dirt.
Ayala Mall is probably the best area – lots of girls shopping and lots of terraces to have a drink right away. SM City Cebu is the second best place.
Try out one of the following places too:
- Elizabeth Mall
- SM Seaside
- J Mall
The night game is slightly different. You can still find good girls for a relationship, but when you reach the local nightlife, you are very likely to find other types of girls.
First, if you hang out around popular tourist places and you see single girls by the bar, they are probably prostitutes.
Second, you can find girls who would like to hook up with foreigners because they are different. They are free – no strings attached though.
Third, fancy nightclubs may also bring in posh girls who are not so interested in anything special – rejection is quite common in this range.
Generally speaking, alcohol and the party spirit will cause girls to loosen up. It is usually up to you to decide what you want.
There is a good chance to get some phone numbers and get laid the same night, but it depends on how lucky you are finding the right girls.
Best Cebu pick up bars
The nightlife in Cebu suffered a shock when some of the top places were closed. Most of them were in the city center. You will still find lots of clubs and bars, but they are scattered around, rather than over one or two streets.
During weeknights, you will find lots of hookers. Things change a bit over weekends, when the crowd is mixed.
Best nightclubs and bars
Some of the best nightclubs and bars to pick up Cebu women include:
- LIV Superclub
- The Distellery
- Complex Bar & Lounge
- Club Lotus
Being part of the bar district that was partially shut down, Holic is on and off. It is by far the best place to party in Cebu.
Mandaue has a rich nightlife too. In fact, some of these nightclubs are in the area. It is not that far from the city center, so just grab a taxi. If you are after hookers, try out Oqtagon and LIV Superclub.
Best strip bars, massage parlors and gentleman clubs
The Colon district is the best place to discover local strip bars. Most of them are on the Sanciangko Street, with Club Mermaid dominating the scene. Most girls are pretty and have good bodies. This place has a shower on stage, so girls get wet while they dance.
When it comes to massage parlors, opt for sensual parlors or you may not get a happy ending. Many girls also provide more, not to mention individual sex services – get their numbers and meet them later.
Some of the best massage parlors include:
- Mars Massage
- Orchid Spa
- Caesars Palace Mandaue City
- Waterfront Hotel Lahug
You can also try out adult karaoke bars – most girls can be taken to your hotel. Try out:
- Las Vegas
- Love City Bar & KTV
- Arena KTV Lounge
- Infinity KTV & Music Lounge
Red light district
Officially, Cebu does not have a red light district, but there are places where you will feel like in one.
You will find lots of girls in Cebu ranging from 5s to 9s in one of the following locations:
- Mango Street
- SM Ayala Mall
- IT Park
Be cautious and ask about everything upfront. Most prostitutes show up after sunset.
Whorehouses and brothels are no longer popular, but taxi drivers can still make some recommendations. Ask for luxury – you do not want to end up in a sketchy place for locals.
Street prostitutes can be extremely cheap – you can get a blowjob behind a restaurant toilet for close to no money.
It might be better to choose quality – someone with her own place or perhaps someone who will come to your hotel. Keep in mind – luxury in the Philippines is still cheap and affordable.
Top 5 girl friendly hotels in Cebu
Not all hotels are girl friendly. Besides, you do not want to be stuck in a basic one star hotel just because it accepts girls. You can find quality places that allow you to host orgies without breaking the bank.
Cebu Grand Hotel has spacious rooms. It is clean, modern and allows guests. Prices are in the middle range, yet it provides great value for money. You have lots of facilities on site.
Golden Prince Hotel & Suites should not be overlooked either. It is a luxurious place that will not cost you too much. It will most likely impress your guests. The staff is friendly and can provide recommendations.
Alpa City Suites Hotel offers great value for money too. It is located in a safe area, but quite close to the rich nightlife. It accepts girls and no one will ever question you. Plus, you got beautifully decorated rooms.
Montebello Villa Hotel is not just girl friendly, but you can also swim in its own pool after banging a few beauties. It is extremely clean and while it looks quiet, it is not far from top attractions.
Finally, Beverly Boutique Business Hotel looks a bit sketchy at first – luxury feel, great rooms and perfect decorations. You are allowed to bring girls in too. Prices are extremely low, so value for money is exquisite.
How to get around in Cebu
Whether you are hunting Cebu girls or you want to explore, chances are you will rely on taxis. They are inexpensive and will get you to your destination in no time. When traveling long distance, a bus or a coach could save you some money. Click here to find more information about transportation bookings!
Now, lots of foreigners also choose to discover the local culture. Make sure you travel by jeepney – a small, kitsch open bus. Getting on one can be challenging. Just run and jump on its back while it drives.
Tricycles – motorcycles with side cars – are just as common, not to mention pump boats.
Bottom line, girls in Cebu come in multiple shapes and designs, types and nuances. Decide upfront on what you want – paid sex, casual sex or a relationship. Once you have a plan, you will know when and where to search.
Good luck, mate! 🙂